July 2009
5 posts
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To Dominate or Be Dominated?
http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-why-independent-women-like-to-be-dominated/?obref=obinsite Oh this article speaks the truth. At least for me. I’m in control in most areas of my life. Sometimes it would be nice to NOT be in control or even have to have any control or to think about it at all. Of course I would have to have a crazy level of trust with someone. I think because I’m so...
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5 Things I've Learned Recently
1. Whether or not I share all my shit, I still scare them off so I might as well get everything out in the open in the beginning. 2. Email, IM, and text conversations are awesome but they in no way substitute for real life and chemistry in such forms is NOT REAL. 3. I am superhot and awesome and it’s not my fault if you don’t realize it. 4. I NEVER claimed I was sweetness and light and...
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Bounce Back Up Again
A and I broke up yesterday. Or rather, he broke up with me. I’m very okay with this actaully. My mother said I actaully sounded kind of relieved. He’s still kinda angry about the whole thing was was mostly precipitated by me being a raging bitch. I freely admit this. In my defense, I played in a tournament for the first time this weekend, and I had started my period that morning so I...
Movies and mayhem (but only in my dreams)
It may seem strange, at least it does to me, but I regularly dream about the city. Sometimes M is there but oft times not. I had a dream the other night that involved her talking on the phone in her room while trying on a yellow dress. Not really sure what that was all about. This past weekend I went to the drive-in with J and some other people I kinda knew but not really. I almost didn’t...
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Single Black Mothers
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/07/01/bia.single.black.women.adopt/index.html I came across this article today from CNN’s “Black in America” series. I thought it was very interesting that these women chose to adopt a child, versus having one through a sperm donor or some other avenue. I do commend these women for making positive decisions with their lives. As one woman’s...
